
You're Being Brainwashed into Believing This Marketing Myth—Here’s the Truth
If you’ve been in business for even a short while, you've probably heard this popular marketing mantra:
"Always be closing."
Sounds familiar, right? Sales gurus, business books, seminars they've all conditioned us to believe that successful marketing revolves around aggressively closing deals, hunting leads, and pushing prospects toward a sale as quickly as possible.
But here's the hard truth:
You're being brainwashed into believing a myth that's not just ineffective it's actively hurting your business relationships and growth.
The Myth of Always Be Closing
Sure, "Always be closing" has a certain charm. It’s catchy. It's easy to remember. It makes you feel proactive and in control. But here’s the reality check:
Clients today don’t want to be aggressively sold. They don't want transactional relationships. They're not interested in feeling pressured or pushed.
They want genuine connections. They want trust. They want to feel valued, understood, and appreciated.
In short:
Your clients don’t want to be closed they want to be cared for.
Why Relationships Outperform "Closing" Every Single Time
Here’s what I've learned after decades in business development and relationship marketing:
The strongest, most profitable businesses aren't those relentlessly pursuing deals they're businesses consistently nurturing meaningful relationships.
Instead of pushing clients toward a sale, focus your efforts on building trust, expressing genuine gratitude, and providing continuous value.
Here’s the evidence:
Higher lifetime customer value: Clients who trust you buy more often and refer more frequently.
Stronger referrals: Happy clients actively share their experiences, becoming powerful advocates.
Reduced churn rate: Clients who feel genuinely cared for remain loyal, even when competitors offer lower prices or tempting alternatives.
Replacing "Closing" with Connection and Gratitude
So, what should replace "Always be closing?"
"Always be connecting."
"Always be caring."
"Always be showing gratitude."
When you shift your mindset from transactional to relational, here's what happens:
You become memorable. Your business stands out in a sea of aggressive pitches and impersonal follow-ups.
You build trust effortlessly. When clients feel valued, trust naturally follows.
You foster loyalty and advocacy. Happy clients become your strongest promoters, effortlessly driving referrals and new business opportunities.
How to Shift Your Marketing Mindset Immediately
Making this shift is simpler than you might think:
Send genuine gratitude: Replace automated emails with personal messages or gratitude cards—digitally or printed.
Prioritize listening: Understand client needs deeply, rather than immediately pitching your services.
Follow-up genuinely: Offer value consistently, even if it doesn't immediately lead to a sale.
The Real Truth
Forget what traditional sales methods have taught you. The era of transactional marketing is over.
The future belongs to businesses that cultivate relationships through authenticity, genuine gratitude, and meaningful connection.
Stop being brainwashed into believing outdated myths. Start genuinely connecting, and watch your business thrive.